Wednesday, July 11, 2012

度量须比肚腩大


人过中年,身体自然会多点病痛。小病也许是福,休息一两天,吃了药也就没事。大病可就头疼,除了患者身心受折磨,身边的人也免不了忧心忡忡。所以说健康是最大的财富,没病没痛比再多的金钱更难得可贵。要是不幸病了起来,又没钱治疗,那可是烦上加烦,苦不堪言。

像我们上班一族,为了事业打拼,往往忽略健康,当身体发出讯息时,大问题也就跟着来了。花钱治病是免不了的,但身心上的折磨更是可怕。当你躺在床上,翻来覆去,为了自身的病或是亲人的病而睡不着觉时,那可是会累垮的。那种无形的折磨是非一般的难熬。

所以说事业要经营,自身的健康更必须要细心经营。吃的,喝的,运动,睡,工作,随着年纪的增长,都该适当的调整以便让老化的身躯能够免于或减少病痛。对人对事,心态也该适当的调整。也没有必要对别人的闲言闲语,冷讽热嘲,而耿耿于怀。为了那些没有修养的人而动怒是何其不值和不智的事。

人过中年,度量必须比肚腩大。所谓宰相肚里能撑船,就是倡导为人处世要豁达大度,待人处事要宽厚仁慈。不然小事斤斤计较,心胸狭窄,小肚鸡肠,难不保气出一身病来。当然人非圣贤,要真正的做到宽宏大量,宽厚仁慈是难上加难。但只要不为别人的冷讽热嘲而动怒,就自然的快活些。

人只要活的自在,就仿如走路有风。以不变应万变,自然就会百毒不侵。

Monday, July 9, 2012

Roger vs Murray, Lim Guan Eng vs Chua Soi Lek


It was hard to stick to one channel last night if you’re a sport fan. The great Wimbledon final between Roger and Murray, and the Formula 1 at Silverstone were running concurrently and as the F1 went to Mark Webber at 9.45 pm, Murray was leading Roger with 1 set up and it was such an exciting tennis match between a legend and a highly talented British player so eager to win his first Grand Slam. After all, it has been since 1938 that a British won their home tournament at Wimbledon, expectations were high on Murray seen as the best chance to end the drought for so many decades.

He failed eventually despite of winning the first set and so close in the second but when the roof was closed and turned the court into an indoor one, Roger was simply unstoppable. Perhaps, he shoulders too much of the expectations of his countrymen as even the likes of David Bergkamp, Posh Spice, Duchess of Cambridge and her sister Pippa and Prime Minister David Cameron were there to lend him supports.


In the end, Murray choked when delivering his speech and his public tears just proved how much winning at Wimbledon meant to him. But he did his countrymen proud, 20-millions Britons were reportedly following the live telecast on TV struggled to contain their disappointments. Despite of losing the match, clearly the young lad has the supports of his countrymen undividedly behind him.

Switched over channel 301 of Astro and you see two so familiar faces finger-pointing at each other again for the second time and there was nothing new at all, not inspiring, not moving, perhaps a little bit disgusting especially when they took turns to throw slanders at each other. Talking about policies to benefit the people and country? Are these two guys genuinely thought that they are capable to bring about a significant change to effect a better live for us?

Watching Murray losing to Roger is more inspiring I guess, at the very least, there were no crocodile’s tears. Murray’s tears were genuine.